Birthday Party

Have you noticed that children’s birthday parties have a tendency to get out of hand? When my oldest turned four, we had a big party. I spent weeks planning, days cooking and hours cleaning. Hundreds of dollars went in choosing the perfect food and decorations.

I don’t think many people, including my daughter, remember the flavor of the cake or the color of the streamers. I was stressed ¾ of the time, and it was only when I was left with a crowd of close friends that I finally relaxed. I vowed I wouldn’t do it again.

Today made me rethink birthday parties. I’ve never really believed that a child’s birthday party could be easy, but I saw it happen! We celebrated my friends’ little boy turning two at Ypao Beach, a local beautiful spot here in Guam. The guests were relaxed and playful- collecting shells and making sand castles. The decorations were stunning- lots of beach and beautiful water. The food was simple and yummy - cool drinks and pizza. We laughed and giggled, kids and grownups alike.

A birthday party is about helping a family celebrate their child growing up. It doesn’t have to be elaborate but it helps to be genuine. Real friends will thank you for the opportunity to gather and share in your celebration. So thank you my friend. And happy birthday little man. We had a great time.

Sheila Cason, MD